How to declutter your home... FOR GOOD

How to declutter your home… FOR GOOD

It's time to declutter. Although really I should wait until Monday. Oh wait, it was a busy day, I'm too tired to declutter, it will just have to wait until the weekend. Well, it's now the weekend, and I'm busy... maybe another time.

Does this sound like you? It certainly sounds like me.

I'm a magpie, I love to collect things - and then suddenly, out of nowhere, I have cupboards bursting with items I really don't need. It's time to face the music and get started. The clutter is certainly not going to clear itself - it's time to declutter, and this time it will be for good.

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Why you need to declutter with a plan

Declutter with a plan
Making a list, checking it twice.

It's not a good idea to suddenly launch into a ferocious whirlwind of sorting. You'll end up with a messy floor that's covered in piles of stuff, and soon you won't be able to find a way out. Instead of getting in a tizzy, take some time to write out a solid declutter plan.

1. Work out which parts of your home need a declutter
It's not just your living room, kitchen, bathroom or bedroom that might need a declutter. Think of all those secret messy places that need investigating.

  • Junk drawer
  • Computer
  • Toiletries
  • Linen cupboard
  • Medicine cupboard
  • Keepsakes
  • Crafts
  • Toy box

Once you've established the problematic areas in the home, you can begin.

2. How to work out a decluttering goal
Whether your bedroom wardrobe is so cluttered, that you can't see one item of clothing from the next, or your spare room has turned into a dumping ground for all kinds of things from mini trampolines to old make-up... you've had enough. It's time to work out what you want to achieve with a declutter.

Perhaps your goal is one of the following:

  • I want to let go of 15 items of clothing so that there is more space in my wardrobe.
  • I want to declutter my garage and let go of 5 boxes of junk.
  • I want to have two clean kitchen surface areas, so I can prepare food on them.

Identifying a real, specific, measurable goal will help you reach your target. Decide what your goal is and you can go on to write your plan accordingly.

3. Why you should write a declutter list

Decluttering the kitchen
Forks... everywhere!

Now that you've ascertained a goal, it's time to write out your targets. If you want to have decluttered kitchen, then it's time to list all your tasks.

These could include sorting out:

  • Utensil drawer
  • Checking the herb & spice rack (you might be shocked!)
  • Downsizing linens
  • Decluttering plates / bowls
  • Clearing out unnecessary appliances

The list will be satisfying to tick off, and you can make sure that you've completed everything.

4. Pick the day
It's time to decide on when the big decluttering day will take place. Make sure you've completely cleared out your schedule, so you have no reason to leave in the middle of the project.

Sadly, this means declining social invitations and more importantly - no visitors allowed in the home. Write the date in the calendar and alert all the members of the household, to either stay and help, or clear out!

Declutter Day has arrived!

Make a start by getting organised. If you have an entire room to sort out, then it's time to make a clear space on a floor (or in another room), and start dividing your belongings.

1. Label your clutter piles

Take 4 sheets of paper and in nice big handwriting, label them:

  • Throw / Recycle
  • Donate
  • Sell
  • Undecided

You're ready to begin your declutter mission! Focus. This is what you have been wanting to do for a while and your goal will be achieved.

2. Brief the troops

Are you and your family decluttering together? If so, make sure everyone knows about your targets and goals.

If you need to, enlist the help of a friend to help you go through your items. An outsider won't have the same emotional connection to your clutter, but will still know when something should be kept.

3. Go through every item

Donate, Sell, Throw/Recycle, Undecided Post It Notes
Decision time...

Now the fun part. It's time to go through the area you want to declutter. If you have friends and family helping, make sure they're aware of your goals.

Throw / Recycle old magazines, leaflets, unopened mail. It can all build up. The good thing about it is most of it is recyclable. Get rid of expired food, items that are on the verge of falling apart. Be ruthless.

Donate all those items that still serve a purpose, but you never touch. If you don't want it, someone else might. Give your old belongings to a charity shop or Freecycle. You will be helping people.

Sell items that are too good to give away. Why not sell it on eBay, at a car boot sale, or why not take a look at Facebook selling groups in your area? There are so many different ways to sell items online these days, you won't find it hard. People will come and pick up an item if it's good enough, so you won't even have to leave the house.

Undecided items are those things that you may truly not know what to do with. Don't fret - I won't force you to get rid of them! I'll let you into a little decluttering secret for these special items...

..fill up a one-year box
Here's what you must do with all that pesky clutter that you don't know what to do with. Find a big box (and a home for that box, whether it's out in a garage or in a tricky-to-reach place) and fill it up with all the offending items.

Seal it and grab a marker pen and write a date of one year in the future. When that date comes around, donate the box WITHOUT opening it. You probably won't even remember what was in the box!

4. Think about your clutter

Think about your clutter
Do I need these items? No... I think not.

While time-consuming, giving real thought to each item will help you in the long run.

Ask yourself the following questions repeatedly, 'When did I last use this?', 'Will I use this again?' 'Is this item useful?' - it will help you to decide and commit to your decision.

5. Repeat these mantras in your head

  • I will not keep something out of guilt or obligation.
  • I am not afraid to let go.

These mantras will help you to realise that getting rid of an item does not mean that you are a bad partner, family member, or friend. You do not need to hold onto something out of fear, or expectation.

6. Don't take on too much to handle
Don't try and complete a whole house declutter in one day. You won't be able to stay focused and will get frustrated. Instead, spend a few hours on one space.

7. Complete your decluttering tasks!
Now you've sorted everything into piles, don't just leave it by the door, or in the garage. Take that bag to charity, sell those items on eBay, recycle those old magazines. You've done too much work to get rid of the clutter, so make sure it all leaves the house, in one way or another.

How to organise after a declutter

Declutter your wardrobe.
Time to face the wardrobe.

Now that you've decluttered and got rid of everything you no longer need or want, it's time to get organised.

1. Work out your 'Day-to-day' vs 'Hardly ever' items
It's your chance to sort through all those useful and loved items that you have left after you have decluttered. Start by working out the things you use on a daily basis and those that you rarely use. Once you've established the difference, you can organise your space accordingly.

It's important to place the items you use regularly in easy-to-reach places - at the front of drawers or in cupboards you can get without bending down. The items that you hardly ever use can be stored up high, down low or at the back.

This can also be applied to clothes collection with a little thought. Anushka's Capsule Wardrobe Guide will help you streamline your clothes, giving you the following benefits (among others)...

  • Freedom to spend time on other aspects of your life
  • Make fewer decisions every day
  • Waste less time on deciding what to wear

The same goes for organising all your other items. If the day-to-day items are all in easy-to-reach places, you can clear your mind for other thoughts.

2. Clever storage

Storage boxes
You can get fairly cheap storage boxes from places like Ikea.

There are so many clever storage ideas, it's just a matter of finding the right ideas for you. Take a well-deserved trip to Ikea and get some inspiration, there are loads of different solutions for all the rooms in your house.

3. Make it pretty
It's all well and good getting rid of clutter, in say - a bathroom cupboard, but once you've emptied it and it looks all sad and dreary, you're not going to want to keep it tidy. If you can, give the shelves and the inside of the cupboard a lick of paint. Fresh and bright white paint will make you want to keep the area clean and clutter-free.

4. Consider buying multipurpose furniture
If you've got a tiny room then you've got to be wise about storage. Investing in a dual-use furniture will mean that you can store items without taking up surface space.

5. Beautiful baskets
Once you've got rid of the clutter it's time to buy all those baskets, boxes and containers to help store your items in. Now you've cleared the space you can assess the containers you ACTUALLY need, rather than assuming and buying products that won't fit the space. Here are a few ways to store your pan lids that might interest kitchen declutterers.

7 clever ways to stop the clutter from returning

Tidy organised shelf
You won't BELIEVE what this looked like before!

1. Decide to buy less
If you find yourself in a shop where you might be tempted to buy, don't buy anything. Instead, make a note about the item you are interested in, and visit the list again at the end of the month. You'll be surprised how many items you actually don't need.

2. Be realistic about what you really need
Do you really need to get another duvet set? Do you need another baking tray? Your home does not need to stockpile items, you do not need twenty mugs!

3. Paper rules
Recycle, file or frame. These are the three rules for the paper that comes into your house.

  • If it's recyclable, chuck it in the bin as soon as you no longer need it
  • File if it's important such as bills or bank statements
  • Frame if it's a wonderful piece of art that your child has made!

4. Get a clutter basket
This is a great idea if you've got children - or messy adults! Keep a basket in a central location downstairs, and every evening, use them to throw in all the toys, magazines and bits and bobs in. If you've got children, work putting their belongings away into their chore rota. I love this beautiful large storage basket in grey chevron from Amazon - it's a wonderful size.

5. Make sure everyone is on board
It's all very well and good that you have pledged to live clutter-free, but you must make sure everyone in your home is aware. Together, you'll be able to stay on top of it.

6. One in, one out
If you have caved and purchased an item on a whim, have a rummage around and find an item you can get rid of. This will help you stay strict on yourself when it comes to decluttering, and adopt a one-in, one-out policy.

7. Write a wish list

House magazines with WANT post it
I want I want I want

Sometimes you fall in love at first sight and JUST REALLY WANT THAT THING. Whether it's a brand new coat or a new kitchen appliance, you can't help but gaze at it adoringly and every fibre in your being wants you to buy it then and there.

STOP. Calm down. Grab your phone, or notebook and list under a heading 'Pay Day Wish List'.

This way (if you get paid once a month), you can look at it later and decide whether you had rose-coloured spectacles on at the time, or if you really need it in your life.

Congratulations, you've done it! Now you've decluttered... great! Take your time and bask in the glory that is your clutter-free existence.


Colleen B


Lifelong biscuit addict. Obsessed with recipes, cooking & eating. Slightly lazier than the average bear, so likes writing about life hacks & discovering the quickest / easiest way to do things.

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  1. Author lin on February 8, 2017 at 10:34 am

    love this,think I knew some of it,just got lost in clutter in my head,life got in the way,but could be heading back in right direction now,fingers crossed ! thank you.

    1. Author Colleen B on March 16, 2017 at 2:49 pm

      So glad to hear you liked the post Lin. Good luck on your declutter!

  2. Author lesley beasant on January 1, 2018 at 3:52 pm

    Good advice but I now use the One in - Two out rule as a way to slowly but surely reduce my clutter but with less pain.

    1. Author Stephanie C on January 2, 2018 at 10:54 am

      Hi Lesley. I think I'd struggle with this but I admire your commitment. For me, it's a one in, one out rule.


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