11 Secrets To A Stress-Free Christmas

11 Secrets To A Stress-Free Christmas

Editor's Note: This post was originally posted in November 2016 and has been completely revamped and updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness in December 2019.

Christmas may be a joyful time of year, but for many of us, that joy comes at a cost. With the kids off school, visitors popping in sporadically and a never-ending, undeterminable number of mouths to feed, it's easy to get overwhelmed.

Today, we're sharing some top tips for keeping your stress levels under control at Christmas. 

What is stress?

Becoming a little flustered is one thing, but if you find yourself feeling overly anxious, irritable or low in self-esteem, chances are you're suffering from stress. According to the NHS, symptoms can also include trouble sleeping, headaches, muscle tension and even dizziness.

If this sounds like you, don't fret - a whopping 67% of mothers find Christmas Day stressful, with worries about presents, money, and food being some of the most common causes. With all of that to think about, and much more, it's no wonder the joviality of the festive period is often overshadowed.

However, all is not lost - there are many ways the NHS recommend managing stress, such as:

  • Regulating your alcohol intake
  • Learning how to relax
  • Adopting good time-management techniques
  • Taking regular exercise
  • Having some 'me time'
  • Avoiding unhealthy habits, such as smoking and drinking too much caffeine

With regards to Christmas specifically, some planning and preparation in advance will also greatly help reduce the strain. Here's a list of things we recommend taking care of now, to help ease the pressure on the run-up to the big day:

How to have a stress-free Christmas

1. Buy your Christmas cards in advance

write your christmas cards
It's never too early to start writing your cards.

Did you remember Great-Auntie Sue? Childhood neighbour, Derrick? The exhaustive list of Christmas cards recipients is enough to send anyone a bit loopy.

November may be a bit early to stamp and send your cards, but you can get ahead by picking up a few packs next time you're out. When you find yourself with an hour to kill, get writing so that come December, you'll be able to sit back and relax, safe in the knowledge that no one has been forgotten.

If you've left it too late this year, don't worry. An email, heartfelt text or phone call will mean just as much to them. 

2. Make storing food stress-free by deep cleaning your fridge & freezer

It's fair to say we take festive food pretty seriously in the UK. So seriously, in fact, that finding enough fridge space is one of our main sources of worry at Christmas time.

Deep clean your fridge and freezer in preparation and you - and all your hungry guests - will be safe in the knowledge that there's enough space to store all that deliciousness.

3. Stock up on your favourite Christmas tipples

christmas tipples
Stock up now to avoid disappointment.

Brandy, hot cocoa, cherryade - Christmas just wouldn't be the same without a cupboard full of the family's favourite tipples.

The prospect of not being able to cater for everyone's favourite beverages is actually one of the main stresses at Christmas, which just goes to show how seriously Grandad takes his gin. Make sure you're prepared for whoever drops in by stocking up well in advance.

4. Keep on top of that laundry pile

There's nothing more stressful than spending Christmas Eve stood over the ironing board or washing machine.

Make sure you're able to join in with the family Christmas cheer the night before by keeping on top of the laundry on the lead up to the big day.

5. Schedule in the dreaded, big clean

christmas cleaning
Break your Christmas clean down into smaller tasks for a more manageable clean.

The one you've all been waiting for - the big, deep clean before all our guests and their 'onlooking' eyes arrive.

Despite the fact that everyone will be too busy cooing over new gifts, divine dishes and friendly faces to pay attention to the odd cobweb, it's something the majority of us feel obliged to take care of.

Make this mammoth task less stressful by breaking it down into small tasks and scheduling them out over a longer period of time. That way the prospect will seem much less daunting.

If you're short on time, try to hide as much clutter as possible in cupboards and under beds. Focus on the rooms that will be seen by guests like the living room, downstairs loo and kitchen. 

6. Give your car the once over to avoid Christmas catastrophes

Many of us travel around a lot over the festive period to visit nearest and dearests. While it's great to catch-up, the cold, icy conditions can be tricky to negotiate.

Ensuring your car is fit for the Christmas weather by topping up your screen defroster, checking your tyres and packing a small screen scraper in the glove box for snowy days - it'll be plain sailing from there on out.

7. Rifle through your Christmas decorations

There's nothing like some shiny decorations to bring the Christmas cheer!

Christmas isn't about the materialistic stuff. Of course, deep down we know this is true, but we often feel pressure to make our houses look as beautiful as possible during the festive season.

If you're guilty of frantically rushing out to buy every bauble in sight as the big day nears, planning in advance is probably a good idea.

Check what decorations you already have in storage and it will help you stay calm and collected when buying new ones. There will be less temptation to buy things you don't need, helping to keep that Christmas budget low, and you'll also be able to construct a flowing décor you're proud of.

8. Make welcoming unscheduled guests stress-free

The beauty - and stress - of Christmas often comes from the unscheduled drop-ins of family and friends.

It's difficult to throw things together and make things hospitable at the flick of a switch, and whilst your guests will probably be happy with anything, chances are you'll want everything to be just right.

You can easily make such occasions stress-free by getting a few things together before such occasions arise. Fill a chest full of spare sheets and towels for any ad hoc drop-ins, stock up on toiletries, and clear some wardrobe space so your visitors feel as welcome as you intend them to.

9. Stock up on snacks

christmas food
Get a selection of snacks perfect for young and old.

Christmas is the one time of year when you can expect an impromptu drop-in from literally anyone who's ever known you. Not only that, but you're obliged to welcome the guests - whether you recognise them or not - with the appropriate snacks and nibbles - it's no wonder having enough food is one of our main Christmas worries!

Stock up now to make sure you can fill any awkward silences with snack offerings.

10. Make board games easily accessible

You may no longer have little ones running around at home normally but, at Christmas, this is likely to change.

We all know the joy children can bring, but it's not always easy to appreciate when you're in the middle of cooking dinner for 12.

Make sure there's always something to occupy the little (and big) ones this year by placing a selection of family favourite games on show. It will help keep them quiet, and you calm, when concentration is required.

11. Write the mammoth shopping list

Christmas shopping list
Get organised to help keep stress under control.

There's nothing as devastating as starting Christmas Day dinner only to realise you've forgotten to buy the most lusted-after ingredient - Yorkshire puddings, and lots of them.

Avoid stressing over forgotten ingredients by writing your shopping list as early as possible. (You should probably check it at least ten times too, you know, just to be sure). If you're having people over, why not ask them for suggestions?

Which is the task that stresses you out the most over Christmas? Let me know in the comments below and I'll do my best to help you through it!

Stephanie C


Lover of all things fashion & foodie...I look to satisfy my tastes without obliterating my budget. Wannabe interior designer, I'm an avid cushion cover maker and charity shop hunter.

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  1. Author Cheryl Younghusband on November 18, 2016 at 7:19 am

    I don't stress over Christmas, like your article suggests I do as much prep before hand as I can. I also prepare the veg on Christmas Eve. For the roast potatoes I par boil them, let them cool, cover and put them in the fridge so they just need to go in the oven.

    1. Author Stephanie C on November 18, 2016 at 9:38 am

      Hi Cheryl. It's good to hear that you manage your tasks well enough to enjoy a stress-free Christmas. Preparing the veg and potatoes is a great idea - I bet your Christmas dinner it one to remember! ?

  2. Author Clare Kendrew on November 18, 2016 at 7:43 am

    I know this won't help this year, but saving stamps/cards take the stress out of the mammoth Christmas shop. £10 a month gets you £120 by Christmas. If you afford £10 a week, you have £500. A lot of supermarkets do this and give a bonus on the amount you save.

    1. Author Stephanie C on November 18, 2016 at 9:40 am

      Hi Clare. I don't actually use supermarket stamps myself, but after reading your comment and hearing from fellow Expert Home Tips blogger, Collette, about how beneficial they are, I think I'll start. Great idea - thanks for sharing! ?

    2. Author Susie Keen on November 19, 2016 at 12:18 pm

      Like Cheryl we prepare our Christmas dinner veg on Christmas Eve. Its not unusual for us to have 10 or so for Christmas dinner which is a lot of potatoes and vegetables for 1 person to prepare. Several years ago we decided to make this into a social event and invited our neighbours around. We put on some music, get out the wine and nibbles and all sit around the table preparing our veg and theirs. It makes for a nice night with no one having to drive home and even the men help. Its become a custom in our house and the neighbours now expect it to happen.

    3. Author Stephanie C on November 22, 2016 at 9:50 am

      Hi Susie. Wow, 10 for Christmas? That is a lot! Christmas Eve at your house sounds great - both fun, and productive. What a novel idea. I'll have to see if my neighbours are interested in doing the same this year. Thanks for sharing!?

  3. Author Sandy on November 19, 2016 at 12:19 am

    Don't stress over your Christmas card list - do as I do and buy a Christmas card book. Mine lasts for five years and is in alphabetical order. I can write in the name and address of recipients, if I received a card from them and if I sent them one. Also, I make a note of the type of card I sent so they don't get a duplicate the following year (if you have any left over, that is).

    1. Author Stephanie C on November 22, 2016 at 9:51 am

      Hi Sandy. This is a brilliant tip. It's really nice to let everyone know you're thinking about them at Christmas, whether that be a close relative or an old school friend, but it can be hard to remember everyone. A Christmas card book would definitely help with that. Thanks for sharing your tip?

  4. Author Pauline L on November 24, 2016 at 8:06 am

    Next year don't leave your Christmas presents until last minute. I make a list of the number of female adults, male adults and children. Then each time I go shopping I pick up something, usually something at a bargain price too. When I get home I keep the items in separate plastic storage boxes, one for each of the 3 categories. Half way through the year I do an inventory to see how many of each category I have left to buy and from then onwards each time I do a shopping list I add male/female/child at the top of my list so I know the final gifts I need to pick up. I usually find my main gifts are done by the end of October at the latest so I can just buy a few stocking fillers in November and I never have to go in and shop during the Christmas chaos of December. I get to enjoy December and the atmosphere, I also get to enjoy going out more during the festive season because I have enough money, I don't have to save every penny for shopping and I have more time on my hands as well. Another tip would be to set a family budget. Decide a rough limit on how much you will spend on adults and children. Finally, consider just buying for under 18's and put a lottery ticket in a card for the adults. It can be a Thunderball, Lotto, Health Lottery, or some charity lottery ticket or a scratch-card. Some years we say all of us will buy just scratch-cards, another it can be the local charity lottery tickets but on the whole we enjoy the surprise of not knowing which draw we will have in our cards. Most adults like the suspense of whether they will win more than the others. We tend to all open our cards together as a family over a glass of something on Christmas eve or Christmas Day evening. We have a great laugh and some of us have had some great wins, others not so good. One year I had 3 different scratch-cards from different family members that totalled a win of £108, what a way to start the New Year, I had some money for the sales for a change :)

    1. Author Stephanie C on November 24, 2016 at 12:51 pm

      Hi Pauline, It's such a god idea to start shopping early, especially if you have lots of people to buy for. If not, the sheer amount can get on top of you, not to mention the cost! I also LOVE your lottery ticket idea. The adult often get forgotten about at Christmas, and that is such a novel way to include them in the gift giving - I bet they make for some good stories too! Thanks so much for sharing all your advice, I hope your Christmas is calm & stress-free this year. Oh, and fingers crossed for your scratch-cards - I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.?

  5. Author Tina B on December 17, 2018 at 8:52 am

    To save money buy cards in the January sales start the present shopping in January Keep list it makes life easier Do the veg in November boil roast potatoes for 8 minutes cool place in bag with a little oil/fat freeze take from freezer place in tin and roast as normal do not defrost do exactly the same with parsnips carrots onions sweet potatoes mix together to freeze sprinkle on some mixed herbs as you place in oven add a little honey just before the end of cooking this takes a lot of the stress out of Christmas and you have perfect vegetables just a few sprouts to do Christmas eve

    1. Author Joanne A on December 17, 2018 at 9:42 am

      Great tips, Tina!

  6. Author Amanda Bennison on December 26, 2019 at 9:22 am

    There may be someone you might have forgotten to buy for so when shopping buy a box of extra special biscuits or chocolates then you can have them on standby to give. If you have been well organised you can always take them with you as a Thankyou gift if you are visiting family or friends and they are feeding you and your family over the Christmas period. It's nice to feel appreciated even if you have only put out nibbles and drinks! MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

    1. Author Joanne A on January 3, 2020 at 12:39 pm

      That's a fantastic idea!


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